This website blossomed out of our years of brokenness while leaving the Jehovah’s Witnesses. Our vision for this space is positive affirmations and deconstructing from the Ex-Jehovah’s Witness religion. You will find not-secret-diary posts, information about our future podcast and Youtube channel, inspiring messages and even short stories (some are Ex-Jehovah’s Witness related🌻) If you would like to reach out to us you can email us at healingforthesoulministry@gmail.com or my personal email address simplyshayvslay@gmail.com

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We wanted to create a safe place for having exited the Jehovah’s Witness and those thinking about exiting the Jehovah’s Witnesses. A place where we can begin healing, be inspired to move on in our lives and partner with others on our journey. There are already many Ex-Jehovah’s Witness groups and pages where you can vent and get updates on the latest with the Jehovah’s Witnesses. If you need help finding them let us know and I would be more than happy to point you to some of my favorite groups or pages. We were told so often that our life would be over if we left the religion. We are proof that is simply not true!


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Stop right there! ✋ Ex-Jehovah’s Witnesse have you ever heard a #neverjw say: “well they seem really nice to me” ” My (insert family member) is a Jw .” Or use the “but I have a friend that’s Jw and he/she said the religion is not that way” Please stop this . Don’t gaslight or … Continue reading “I WAS NEVER A JEHOVAH’S WITNESS BUT……

Help For Teenage Jehovah’s Witnesses Looking To Leave The Organization

I am starting to get more heart breaking messages from teenage Jehovah’s Witnesses looking to leave the organization. They are getting younger and younger and the messages are more frequent since quarantine. My daughter is having a tough time so I can’t imagine what Jehovah’s Witness kids are going through 😪 I know from experience … Continue reading Help For Teenage Jehovah’s Witnesses Looking To Leave The Organization

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